Sunday, 10 June 2012

Things you should know......



  • 6.      Keep your grades up. There is nothing more satisfying than seeing your hard work pay off in the form of A's and B's (but mainly A's). This also sets you up to get into a higher institution you want to go to, which in turn prepares you for a career you will enjoy, improving your quality of life in the future.
  • 7.      You can pursue interests you enjoyVideo games, for example, are good if you're the type who can get into that kind of thing. You should also find a hobby that is meaningful or practical. Learn an instrument, or get into something else in the creative field like painting or dance, because this is the time to start developing and uncovering passions that might otherwise lie dormant.
  • 8.      Do your best at everything so you can be proud of everything you do. But remember to give yourself a break when you fail. jLife is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. You always regret the things you don't do.
  • 9. If you are not good at sports, join a band or choir. You'll still be going to games for free like the jocks if you are in pep band, and you have as many opportunities to meet new people as the jocks. Band and choir sometimes involves going on trips, and are great memories to have for high school and college. If you are not good at either music or sports, you can join other activities, start other hobbies, or get a job.
  • 10. Do well in school. Even though you want to enjoy your teen life as best as possible, don't slack off in school. It will pay off in the end. Plus, doing well means no angry parents.
  • 11.Plan something in the future. By doing this you will always have something to look forward to. If your feeling down, if you have something ot look forward to, then it will help pull you through this tough era and get you excited about the future.

Healthy Eating Tips for Teens


  If you're a typical teenager with parents who always nag you about what you eat, how you eat, when you eat or don't eat, and the amount of junk food you consume, these comments will sound familiar to you. Give your parents a break; they are just doing their job. They want you to eat properly so you'll develop, be healthy, and keep your moods balanced. 
Your body needs certain nutrients to feel well as you go through each day. The most important meal is breakfast, even though it's probably the most difficult for many teenagers. Breakfast is even more important if you aren't eating lunch on a regular basis, and are waiting until after school or until dinner to eat.
Protein is a primary component of our muscles, hair, nails, skin, eyes, and internal organs, especially the heart and brain. Protein is needed for growth, for healthy red blood cells, and much more. Protein foods include eggs, cheese, fish, beans, nuts, seeds, chicken, turkey, beef, and pork
If you're a typical teenager with parents who always nag you about what you eat, how you eat, when you eat or don't eat, and the amount of junk food you consume, these comments will sound familiar to you. Give your parents a break; they are just doing their job. They want you to eat properly so you'll develop, be healthy, and keep your moods balanced. 
Your body needs certain nutrients to feel well as you go through each day. The most important meal is breakfast, even though it's probably the most difficult for many teenagers. Breakfast is even more important if you aren't eating lunch on a regular basis, and are waiting until after school or until dinner to eat.
Protein is a primary component of our muscles, hair, nails, skin, eyes, and internal organs, especially the heart and brain. Protein is needed for growth, for healthy red blood cells, and much more. Protein foods include eggs, cheese, fish, beans, nuts, seeds, chicken, turkey, beef, and pork
Carbohydrates are our main source of energy and play an important role in the functioning of our nervous system, muscles, and internal organs. Carbohydrate foods include fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and beans. The foods you should eat in limited amounts are ones that contain sugar, such as packaged cookies, cakes, soda-these sugars are called simple carbohydrates; they have a negative effect on your blood sugar levels and your moods as well.
Fats are a form of energy reserve and insulation in your body, and can be burned to make energy when you don't get enough from your diet. Fats transport nutrients such as vitamins A, D, E, and K through your body and fatty tissue protects your vital organs from trauma and temperature change. 
Simply put, there are "good" fats and "bad" fats. The "bad" fats are called saturated fats and are found in animal products, meats, and dairy foods; they should be eaten in limited amounts. These fats solidify at room temperature. Hydrogenated fats, sometimes called "transfatty acids" are also bad fats that are known to lead to heart disease and cancer. These hydrogenated fats are used in many packaged baked goods and margarine.




"You need to eat your breakfast," "that's enough soda," "please lose the junk food and eat some real food."







Friday, 8 June 2012

Relationship...........Friendship Is Important to Teens

    Peer relationships are very important to teens.

    ·         Friendships provide teens with opportunities to develop conflict resolution skills. Teens can learn how to end a fight and still remain friends.
    ·         Friends provide fun and excitement for teens through companionship and recreation.
    ·         Friends also give advice to one another. Teens talk through lots of issues and problems with their friends.
    ·         Loyalty is a valued trait in friendship. Teens are looking for loyal allies that can help them out at school or in their own neighborhood.
    ·          Friendships also provide stability during times of stress or transition. It is helpful to teens to have a friend who is going through the same situations and can ease the anxieties of the times.

    What happens when youth don't have friends?

    Teens without friends tend to be more lonely and unhappy. They tend to have lower levels of academic achievement and lower self esteem. As they get older, they are more apt to drop out of school and to get involved in delinquent activities.
    Friendships change as youth move into their teen years.
    • Teens tend to spend more time with their peers.
    • They are also more mobile than when younger so more time is spent with peers without parental supervision.
    • During the teen years, there will be increased contact with opposite-sex peers.
    • In the early teen years, often small groups of friends or cliques are formed which help to boost their confidence and give them a sense of identity.

Saturday, 2 June 2012

Dating Ideas.....Getting Started


Let's say you have found a person you would really like to go out with, and you are ready to ask that person out on a date. You will immediately have the question, "What are we going to do on our date?" This question can be particularly tough on the first date because you are trying to make a good first impression and you may or may not know what your partner likes to do. On subsequent dates things tend to get easier. But there are few things more uncomfortable than the conversation that goes like this:

H: "Would you like to go out this weekend?"
S: "I would love to!"
H: "What would you like to do?"
S: "I don't know, what would you like to do?"
H: "I don't know..."
To avoid this little scene, it is helpful to have something in mind when you call!
The activity you pick for the date plays a big part in the date itself. A great activity that feels comfortable to both people can make for a great date. The activity also determines, for example, how much talking you will have to do. If you choose a movie you won't have to say anything once the movie starts. That can be a real relief if you find you are both tongue-tied. If you go out to dinner you will have to carry a conversation all night long. That can be tough sometimes, especially on the first date. You can also earn points for the creativity of your date - if you have a really great idea then your partner will be impressed by your ingenuity.

……TO BE CONTINUED

Friday, 1 June 2012

Coping With Peer Pressure: Getting Along Without Going Along

• Introduction
Peer pressure arises from an individual’s need to have the approval and acceptance of his or her equals. It is a behavioral pattern that begins in childhood and continues into adulthood. 




However, there is probably no one time in an individual’s life when the influence of peer pressure is stronger than in adolescence. At the same time that teenagers are struggling to declare independence from their parents, they are striving to win the acceptance and support of friends and classmates. They are, in fact, struggling to belong—to become part of a group that will help provide security and an emerging sense of identity.


 This quest for peer approval motivates much of an adolescent’s behavior.

Often, peer pressure can be a positive force in a teenager’s life. The advice of friends can help teens make the right decision in a tough situation. And there’s nothing necessarily wrong with trying to conform; belonging to a group can help adolescents begin the complicated process of separating from their parents and developing their own, increasingly independent identities. 



However, when bowing to peer pressure means betraying personal beliefs and values, peer pressure becomes a negative force.
Before teenagers can learn when to say “no” to peer pressure, they must learn exactly what they are rejecting, and why.